Self-Love Is An Important Quality
Self-love is very important. You must love yourself before you can love someone else. A commandment is, love your next one like yourself. How much or how little is your love for others? The more you love yourself, the more you can and will love others.
Self-love must not be confused with egoism. And yet there are overlaps. Find out more below.
First, take care of yourself, because only when you are well, you can take care of others. If you are not treated yourself well, others will also not treat you good. The better you treat yourself, the better others will treat you.
Let’s look at what belongs to self-love, how self-love shows in general and in specific situations and the situations in which you can practice self-love.
This is part of Self-Love
To be conscious of your self
To be self-confident
To have self-respect and self-esteem
To believe in yourself
Behavior with Self-Love
To love yourself and your life
To not let others exploit you
To speak with and to yourself positively and with respect
To wish yourself the best
To treat yourself well
To be your best friend
To confess and fulfill your desires
To feel and radiate love
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Being Self-Conscious – Self-Consciousness
A very important part of self-love is being self-conscious.
To the consciousness of oneself belongs
• To be aware of your value
• To be aware of your talents and abilities
• To be aware of your possibilities
• To be aware of your good looks.
• To meet your wishes and goals
• And much more.
Be Aware Of Your Value
Do you know your value? Do you have to think about it? The answer is simple. You are the most valuable person in your life and in your reality.
I formulate a few sentences to illustrate this. You are worth treating yourself well. You are worth, having a good time whenever possible. You are worth, not always doing others favors, because you have more important things to do.
Think of your value in general and in special situations.
There are women who do a lot which they think a man would expect from them. This sometimes goes till self-surrender. They behave like dogs running behind their lord. And then they wonder when they are abandoned. There are also men who do more than just carry a woman on hands.
Stay true to yourself and be aware of your value. If two equal partners find themselves, this becomes a wonderful partnership.
You might also want to read Be aware of how special you are
Be Aware Of Your Talents And Abilities
Make a list of your talents and abilities. What can you do particularly or quite well?
Here are a few examples: Are you creative? Do you have craft skills? Do you cook well? Are you eloquent? Do you have good taste? Are you a musician? Can you sing well? Are you good at math? Are you a good listener? Are you a good organizer? Think about it, write your talents and abilities down and become aware of them.
Be Aware Of Your Possibilities
Review the list of your talents and abilities. This gives you opportunities that you can use professionally and privately. But also become aware of what is offered to you. Choose what you enjoy.
Be Aware Of Your Appearance
Your appearance has its value and should not be disregarded. It is the first thing that others perceive. There are people who may not be beautiful, but because of their self-confidence, they are attractive.
Admit And Fulfill Your Desires
To admit and fulfill your desires, has much to do with self-love. But at the other hand this must not degenerate into egoism.
Most people compensate with what they can afford. Good, good, you can not get all you want immediately. But find your true wishes and plan how you will fulfill one by one. Also read How you create your reality and what you want.
Mothers think little about their own desires. The wishes of their children comes first. I do not propagate that if you are part of a family, that you only fulfill your wishes and the others go empty. There shall be a certain balance of fulfilling your wishes and those of others. When talking about wishes, you should also mention yours.
Self-Respect and Self-Esteem
Recognize your value and value yourself. Make others understand what you are worth. This is not only about your value, but also that you respect yourself for it.
Value yourself and be proud of yourself. Too many people ask what they should be proud of. Take the time and write down everything you love, appreciate and cherish about yourself. If you do not immediately know a number of wonderful features, ask friends and relatives. You will be amazed at what others notice and what they value about you.
Your friends and acquaintances will have a lot to say. You can do this and that so well. They will say that they appreciate you because of certain qualities. They will remind you of what you have created and achieved, and what they believe that you are able to do.
If You Let Others Take Advantage Of You, You Will Not Be Much Respected
It’s good if you have special skills. However, do not let others take advantage of you, because of your skill.
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How do you behave when you have to do an important job and someone asks you to do something for him? Many people have a problem with saying no. No, I do not have time today. Some are saying no, but but come with excuses. You do not have to apologize to anyone when you need to do something important or if you are not in the mood to do them a favor.
“No, I have no time. I have to do something important, “you say. The other person asks what is so important. Why not say, “it is nothing that is of interest to you” When I am asked, what I have to do and they of course mean, that I have not time doing them a favor. I answer: “You have asked me, if I can do you a favor. I have answered with no. Period.”
There is a certain type of people who do not stop asking. They expect that when they need something, others will immediately run and do whatever they are asked to do. These are selfish people. You can do without them.
In such cases I say: “I said that I have no time. There is no reason that I discuss with you, why I don’t have time. You asked me if I would run to you now to do something for you. My answer was NO. I do not have time.” Either I suggest a later date or that they should look for someone else who is working for them immediately and free of charge.
Couple of years ago I was asked by a couple, if I could translate something into English for them. I was very busy, but I could use some money, what the two knew. I replied, “I gladly translate this page. I only charge 50 euro.” A professional translator would have charged at least the triple. The two never replied, they never asked me for anything again and the contact soon broken off.
I know what I can and what a favor is worth. I am willing to do friends a favor. But not if I know I’m just being used. People who just want to take advantage of me get a straightforward no. And when they continue, I repeat the no with emphasis. And even if this is not accepted, I say Bye in a friendly way and stop the call. There were also people to whom I said that they should never call me again.
Believe In Yourself
The faith in yourself and in the success of your projects, is important for the success in your life.
He who loves himself also believes in himself. What for question yourself or question to reach a certain goal? If you believe in yourself and if you are certain that you will reach your goals, you will reach them. Of course you might have to solve some problems on the way to achieve a goal. Life does not always go straight. There are ups and downs. The stronger your faith in yourself and in the success of your projects, the smaller the problems and down-phases will be. Whenever you are down, tell yourself that you are up soon.
If you believe in yourself, you will be more confident. You only have to start with a task, to find out that you can.
Have Trust In Yourself
How strong is your self-confidence? Do you trust yourself and can you trust yourself? Let me explain that two different qualities are addressed here.
If your faith in yourself is strong, your self-confidence will also be strong.
But how much can you trust yourself? If you change for example a habit, do you stick to it? Habits are stored in the subconscious mind. When you change a habit, your subconscious mind reacts with discomfort. If you endure this time of discomfort until the new habit has replaced the old one in the subconscious mind, you have made it It takes an inner strength. Those who love themselves have this strength. The desired changes are to your advantage. It is worth to put some effort to succed.
Some of the experiences I have made. Years ago I have been changing my diet very strongly, I managed to do that within a few days. When it comes to smoking, I am not even thinking of stopping to smoke. I try to smoke a little less, but am not very successful doing so. If I want to change something in my daily routine, I do not manage everything immediately. This means that I can’t trust myself fully. Sad, but true.
So I can say of myself that my self-confidence in general is very good, but if I am able to trust myself, on a scale of 10 I would give myself a seven. What about you?
Love Yourself and Your Life
There is nothing to prevent you from loving yourself more than anyone or anything else. Recognize how important this is.
If you love yourself and your life, joy will come. Joy is an important part of the creation process. Only with joy, you can create beautiful things and all that you want.
How do you behave when you love someone? Behave toward yourself the same way. Do whatever it takes to feel great. Give yourself sufficient attention. Treat yourself with respect. Are you missing something to love your life? What do you need to fully enjoy it? Find a way to get what you need to enjoy yourself and your life.
How Do You Speak To Yourself?
Are you complimenting yourself? And do you feel how great are you? You are unique and great. There is no second person who is equal to you. In your reality you are the absolute best. So talk to yourself positively and with respect.
Watch your self-talks. Speak in a positive way to yourself. Stop questioning your skills, talents and abilities.
Also read: Control your inner talk
Stand up, and say to yourself,
I am unique.
I am great.
Of course I can do that.
And I can do that very well.
I reach my goals.
I fulfill my desires.
I am proud of myself.
Wish the Best for Yourself
You may think that of course you want and wish the best for yourself. But how often do you do that? How often do you say, that the best is good enough for you and that you get the best? Or how often do you have to be satisfied with the second or third choice?
Do you make your dreams come true? Or do you accept what is easily available? And you say, “I can’t afford what I really want.” Think about what you have to do to fulfill your true wishes. Make a plan and do step by step what is necessary to get the best.
During my twenties I wanted to move to Italy. At that time there was neither the European Union nor the Internet. I could not speak Italian and it would have been almost impossible to find work and get a work permit. For several years I am working per Internet and it does not matter where I live. Though, I had forgotten my wish. I believed that I am happy in Vienna. I felt that something is not right, but could not figure out what it is One day I remembered that I wanted to move to Italy. I opened the map of Italy in the Internet and began to do some research. I chose the area South of Rome. The moment I had made the decision to move to Italy, things began to role. I have packed, sold my apartment in Vienna, had my possessions put into a warehouse and went to the South of Rome. Since then I know that this was the right move.
Whatever your wishes are and no matter how big they are, tell yourself that you are worthy to fulfill them..
Treat Yourself With Love And Respect
How do you treat yourself? You are worth it to treat yourself with love and respect. Take the necessary time and whatever is necessary to enjoy your life. Buy clothes that make you feel good. In your spare time, do something you like to do and enjoy. Do not always adapt to the wishes of others. If you can not help it, distance yourself from others. If others take no account of your wishes, they are not worth your consideration. Keep in mind that you are the most important person in your life. If you have a partner and a family, find a way that all are happy.
Treat yourself with utmost care and allow yourself well-being moments. Book a full body massage. Take a bath with a fragrant bath gel or oil. Go out for dinner from time time to time.. If you are alone, you will be spoiled by the waiters. Buy something that gives you pleasure. Take a trip and have a good time.
Recognize your passions and follow them. You are getting yourself into a good mood. Do you have time to pursue your interests and hobbies? This too belongs to self-love.
What do you do if you enjoy this very moment and the phone rings? Do you quickly take the phone and answer? You might want to see who is calling and you answer if it is a friend or acquaintance. The special moment is gone.
It is best to turn off the phone, put a thick pad on it, or carry it to another room. You and this wonderful moment are more important than anything else. You are worth to take time for yourself and enjoy it and do not let anything detract this time. Later you can have a look if you have received a call.
Be Your best friend
You are the most important person in your life and also your best friend.
How do you treat your best friend? Treat yourself even better. You are absolutely your best friend. You are the only one who is always there for you.
A really good friend is at your disposal in good and bad times and also in critical moments. No second person will do everything for you but you. That is reason enough to treat yourself like your best friend. This is an important point when it comes to self-love.
You Are The Creator Of Your Life And Self-Love Assists You
In many of my texts, I explain that everyone creates his own life. You create your life with your thinking and how you feel. That is why it is so important that you love yourself, believe in yourself, think great about yourself, fulfill your true desires, adjust your life to your wishes, feel wonderful and happy.
If you love yourself, deal with self-love, you will soon notice positive changes in your life.
Radiate Love
If you love, you radiate love. People who are close to you and people who meet you feel that. This love that you radiate toward others, is reflected back on you.
Self-love is a wonderful thing and is very important to live a happy and full life.
Now take a few minutes and think about self-love and how much you love your life. What can you do to love yourself more?
What is your opinion about self-love?
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Affirmations in the Self-Love Subliminals
You are conscious of your self.
And you believe in yourself.
You are a unique and valuable person.
You are conscious that you are a unique and valuable person.
Yes, you know how unique and great you are.
You love yourself and you love your life.
You treat yourself with love.
You love yourself and so you love other people and you are loved.
You accept yourself fully.
You are your best friend.
You know how beautiful you are inside and out.
You recognize your many good qualities.
Your respect for yourself is high.
Yes, your self-respect is high.
Your self-confidence is high and rises continuously.
You are the creator of your life.
You easily create and manifest what you want.
And you perceive what you want.
You have many great possibilities.
You recognize your possibilities and you utilize them.
You reach all your goals.
It is easy for you to achieve your goals.
You believe in yourself and you believe that you reach all your goals.
Your wishes and dreams are manifested and you perceive them with great joy.
You are proud of yourself and of everything you have achieved and which you achieve.
You make beautiful experiences in your life.
You are doing very well.
As you are doing wonderfully, you can help others, which gives you joy.
Your consciousness is highly developed. It is constantly expanding. It is part of the higher consciousness.
You know that you are part of God and that God is in you.
You know your powerful possibilities and your power to create.
You take responsibility for your happiness and your life.
You are the most important person in your life.
Your heart is full of love for you.
You radiate love.
And love comes back to you.
You deserve the highest and best.
Yes, you deserve the absolute best.
And you create the best.
Your mind is brilliant. Yes, your intelligence is very high.
You know you’re very intelligent.
Your mind is filled with loving, positive and successful thoughts.
So your life is wonderful.
And you feel great.
You enjoy your life.
Your focus is in the now.
You are filled with joy and energy.
You love and appreciate yourself and your life.
Yes, you love and appreciate yourself and your life very much.
Confirming, Affirmations
Confirming Affirmations are included in the Self-Love 3A Subliminal and in the Self-Love 3A Silent Subliminal.
You are conscious of your self.
Yes, you are fully conscious of yourself.
You are a unique and valuable person.
Yes, that is right, you are a unique and valuable person.
Yes, you know how great you are.
You love yourself and you love your life.
You know how important and right it is that you love yourself and your life.
You treat yourself with love and respect.
You love yourself and so you love other people and you are loved.
You accept yourself fully.
Yes, you accept yourself.
You are your best friend.
You know how beautiful you are inside and out.
Yes, it is true that you are beautiful.
You recognize your many great qualities and you appreciate yourself for it.
Yes, you have a lot of good qualities.
Yes, your self-esteem is high and is constantly rising higher.
You are the creator of your life and you create exactly what you want.
Yes, that is right, you are the creator of your life and you create everything you want.
You reach all your goals. It is easy for you to achieve your goals.
Yes, it is easy for you to achieve all your goals.
You believe in yourself and that you reach what you want.
Yes that’s right. You believe in yourself and that is why you create what you want.
Your wishes and dreams are manifested and you perceive them with great joy.
Your frequency adapts to your desires and so you perceive what you want.
Yes, you always make the right decisions.
You make many beautiful experiences.
Yes, that’s right, you make beautiful experiences that make you grow.
You are doing very well.
Yes, it is true that you are doing great.
Your consciousness is highly developed. It evolves constantly and becomes part of the higher consciousness.
Yes, that is right, your consciousness is highly developed and is constantly expanding.
You know that you are part of God and that God is in you.
You are a powerful creator.
Yes, it is right you have the power to create.
You are the most important person in your life.
You realize that you are the most important person in your life.
Your heart is full of wonderful love for you.
You radiate love and respect.
And love and respect comes back to you.
You deserve the highest and the best.
You expect and you get the best.
And yes, you choose the best and you get the best.
Your personality is strong and growing.
Your radiance is beautiful and strong.
Yes, you are aware of your wonderful charisma.
Yes, it is true, you have a strong charisma.
Your mind is brilliant. Yes, your intelligence is very high.
Yes, you know you’re very intelligent.
Your mind is filled with loving, positive and successful thoughts.
Your life is wonderful.
You enjoy your life very much.
It is the life that you really want to live.
You are full of joy and energy.
You love yourself.
Yes, you love yourself very much,
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